I've just had an avid debate with one of my friends on my use of smilies.
I like smilies. I believe it takes body language to new heights. i use =D when i'm happy, =( when i'm sad >=( when i'm angry, @_@ when I'm confused...
and XD instead of the ever popular(and frankly annoying) online phrase "lol".

But this friend of mine couldn't see how "XD" looked like a person laughing...
So, I have to find another way to express myself?

Well, I do have an alternative... one I do use quite often, but more for actions... *(insert-action-here)*

Please tell me other people can see it, and i'm not just smiling in the dark.